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Jane, are you ready for Part 2 of our inquiry
into your new book, Dreams, Symbols and Homeopathy? Are you ready
for more challenging, and in-depth, probing questions? I was afraid
of that. All I have are the ones I made up. So, brace yourself (not!)
here comes another cavalcade of thrilling questions:
Regarding "compensatory dreams":
This is a very interesting concept--that a shy person, for example,
will dream of great exploits and great achievements to "compensate"
for his one-sidedness. Here's the problem I have with this concept,
I would think that if a person could "achieve" in his
dreams, it would inevitably "spill over" into his waking
state and affect him in a positive way. In my own experience, I
don't dream anything that I can't actually do. There's one exception
though, I've found that when friends aren't speakng to me, I dream
that they are; or if someone dies, I dream they're alive; it's as
if I'm in denial. I wonder if a dream like this would be considered
an Ignatia dream, or is that a compensatory dream too?
Dreams often show us the other side of ourselves- in other words-
they compensate for how we are in our waking state. And yes, what
they say about that other side of ourselves can "spill over"
and change our life. The problem is---we usually dont want
to listen because the dreams are often shadow material. Remember
our discussion of the shadow- that it is made up of parts of ourselves
that are unacceptable and undesirable? Because we dont want
to look at this shadow material it is easier to just say this is
nonsense that happens while I am asleep.
When we become serious about looking at our dreams or if our homeopath
helps us analyze our dreams and uses them to find a good remedy
for us- we begin to accept and integrate this shadow side of ourselves.
We are then on the path to integrating our shadow energy and becoming
a healthier and more conscious human being.
The dreams that you mentioned (that someone who isnt speaking
to you really is, or that someone who is dead is actually alive)
can, like all dreams, have different meanings depending on who you
are; in other words, your whole life story, what exactly happened
before the dream and how that relates to who you are as well as
your exact associations to all of the details in the dream. These
dreams could indicate any number of remedies depending on how they
fit into the whole picture of who you are and under what circumstances
they occurred.
Here's a question I get from some of the
parents in my practice: When a child has a nightmare where he seems
wide awake, talks, cries, etc., but the parents can't communicate
with him, and especially if he's just been given a remedy within
a few days, what significance can one make of a dream like this?
Unless there is an emergency situation, it is important to always
wait and see what happens after someone has taken a remedy. It really
depends on what happens after 4- 8 weeks to be able to evaluate
the significance of a child having such a nightmare after taking
a remedy. One thing that occurs to me is that any child receives
quite a shock coming into the world and a good remedy might just
bring this up in a dream.
Of course if this continues, we might have to consider a new remedy
because the first was incorrect or it uncovered this layer of shock.
As far as the importance of the content of the dream- I have rarely
found the child to be able to remember the content or these nightmares
until much later on in life. Of course the eyes open, crying etc.
are important but I think that parents have enough to be concerned
over without being too concerned about an occasional nightmare even
if it occurs after giving a remedy.
As it happens, the child I was thinking
of when I asked the above question was much better the next day.
I wonder also about the dreams where a person is sure he's awake
and not dreaming. He may dream that someone is in the room--robbers,
for example. He tries to get away or call for help but he's paralyzed
(REM sleep). He's very distressed by this. Do these dreams hold
any significance for the homeopath?
What is significant about these dreams (where the person feels
that they are awake), is their intensity. Intensity in dreams is
important just like intensity of any symptom or modality is important.
When using dreams all of the principles of homeopathic case taking
and analysis still apply. We become the unprejudiced observer of
a persons dream state and let him or her tell us what the
dream is about in each and every minute detail. After that
we may or may not have characteristic symptoms that will be part
of the important symptoms that we use in our analysis.
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