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Hyoscyamus (Hyos.) is a very interesting and intriguing remedy,
which has many subtle presentations beyond the caricatures often
described in books. It's a remedy with some common mental and emotional
themes running through all its various expressions. Along with the
clearly provocative characteristics of Hyoscyamus, we want to perceive
its indications in less obvious situations, where the person has
learned to compensate the expression of their state.
One description which fits Hyoscyamus is 'any attention is better
than no attention'. Attention-seeking behavior through verbal or
sexual provocation is a well-known feature of this remedy, and behaviors
can be quite dramatic (lewdness, shameless, wanting to be naked,
singing obsene songs, etc.). But these tendencies are extreme examples
of the Hyoscyamus state, and such clear indications are not often
seen in practice. From a deeper perspective, what would predispose
someone to behave in this manner, and how might the expression of
that state be less apparent?
One common etiology of the Hyoscyamus state is emotional neglect
in childhood (delusion, deserted, forsaken). This stress leads to
adaptation in the will to have one's emotional needs met. The Hyoscyamus
person can gain attention by shocking, annoying or provocative speech
and behavior (inciting others, mocking, mania to ridicule, disposition
to contradict, desire to fight). Hyoscyamus individuals may tell
risque jokes or act like 'clowns' (jesting), and although not listed
in the books, some Hyoscyamus individuals describe an attraction
to, dislike or fear of clowns. The desire for attention leads some
to behave like chameleons when in company, but these multiple personas
undermine a truer sense of self-identity, as the desire for attention
distracts them (and those in their company!). The sense of self-esteem
or self-worth is often very low, and Hyoscyamus individuals may
feel a strong sense of guilt (anxiety of conscience, delusion that
he is a criminal, self-reproach).
Along with the Hyoscyamus stresses of emotional abandonment or
neglect, the desertion may have been complicated by sexual abuse.
This abuse leads to many conflicts later in life--an abuser may
offer some 'attention', but not the emotional support they truly
need. Fundamentally, their trust has been betrayed, and sensitivity
to betrayal is a key theme underlying many behaviors in Hyoscyamus.
In those situations where that trust was not learned, Hyoscyamus
can also experience problems in gaining trust from others (reveals
secrets, gossiping, meddlesome, indiscretion).
Hyoscyamus individuals can be understandably suspicious of other's
motives, but can also be jealous if they feel the little attention
they receive is being threatened. A sense of this threat can be
seen in the rubric 'jealousy between children, when a new sibling
takes the family attention away.' Hyoscyamus can 'act out' if they
feel such a threat, and be manipulative in their desire to gain
others' attention. Some adults describe themselves as 'drama queens',
consciously or unconsciously creating drama in their lives so others
will not 'neglect' them. Unfortunately for the Hyoscyamus individual,
such behaviors can be self-defeating, as people tire of reacting
to such needs. Many Hyoscyamus individuals describe anxieties related
to situations of being deserted or abandoned by lovers, friends,
etc. (ailments from disappointed love).
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