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The opposite pole in Hyoscyamus could be described as 'it's better
to have no attention than to have someone look too closely'. This
tendency appears to stem from the challenges Hyoscyamus individuals
experience with intimacy, and relating to people in a trusting manner.
They can experience great difficulties learning to be vulnerable
in a relationship. The Hyoscyamus adult has not been taught to trust,
or if they did trust in the past, the trust was broken. So to have
someone really 'see' them, with all their fears and defenses exposed,
can be very threatening. They may expend a great effort to maintain
defenses against this possibility (deceitful, sly).
Vermeulen describes the Hyoscyamus 'fear of exposure' with feelings
of shame and strong aversion to undressing, or aversion to men because
"all they want is sex". Sankaran also conveys this fear
by describing a woman who couldn't face anyone if she was dressed
informally (embarrassment, reserved, bashful timidity). There are
often times where both 'poles' of Hyoscyamus are seen alternating
in the same person. One Hyoscyamus client complained her breasts
were too small and no one paid her any attention; then she described
a past eating disorder to stay small-chested so men wouldn't 'stare
and whistle'.
Hyoscyamus can become paranoid about others looking at them (fear
of people, delusion - watched, desire to hide, agoraphobia), and
what others' motives truly are. When one feels no trust in relating
to others, it may seem others are 'out to get them'. This helps
to explain the rubrics: fear of betrayal, fear of being sold, fear/delusion
of being persecuted, fear/delusion of being injured, fear of being
poisoned and fear to drink what is offered. Other common fears of
Hyoscyamus include water, dogs and dark and alone.
In spite of all the above, many well-adjusted Hyoscyamus individuals
have a great deal of insight into their challenges--it's just that
they may not know how to get beyond them! Hyoscyamus characteristics
can be found in such positive rubrics as precocity, intellectual,
introspection, inquisitive, and clairvoyance. Hyoscyamus may be
compared to pulsatilla (complementary--Hyoscyamus demonstrates a
more extreme need for attention), magnesiums (fears of abandoment),
lachesis and other animal remedies (loquacity, themes of attractiveness),
veratrum (themes of persecution), thuja (chameleon personality,
reproaches oneself) and belladonna and stramonium (other members
of the solanaceae family). The reader may read the proving and examine
other rubrics for Hyoscyamus in order to fill out the above description.
In summary (with apologies to Shakespeare!), the Hyoscyamus state
can be respectfully characterized as: 'To be exposed or not to be
exposed, that is the question.'
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